HOW I KNOW MY WAY
What I am learning: the qualities that I want to make a problem may be showing up in my life for reasons other than for me to judge them.
Rev. Hans Peter Meyer
A teacher & coach of authentic relationships I'm working with men and couples to make their lives happier. I'm also a certified Life-Cycle Celebrant™ (weddings, funerals, the rituals of this life).
SHORT: THE LITTLE THINGS
…only when I am slow enough do I notice…
SHORT: THE HARDEST THING?
There is no doing here. Just being, with an open heart. Sometimes, it’s the hardest thing. -Rev. Hans
ABOUT MARRIAGE (& DYING), Part 1
I believe that crossing the threshold into marriage is one of the most frightening things a man can imagine. For good reason. All who cross are lost.
TO BE DANCED INTO HER UNRAVELING
Now I am trying to complicate things.
IT'S LAUGHABLE
What actually happened?
I AM ALIVE
I've written recently, and several times, that I am happy. How does this happen?
AND WHO WOULD CHOOSE TO SLEEP?
Life —fate, luck, destiny, mystery, love— continues to knock on the door of my heart. And I choose to answer.
MY ACHING HEART
I wait. She may choose to deny herself. Or, with practice, she may choose herself, blossoming.
HER DEMAND IS INFINITE & ALWAYS, TOO MUCH
Two conversations. A man swimming, believing himself to be drowning. A woman, swimming for so long, feeling herself lost without the presence of the eternal.
SHE WOULD BE 65 TODAY. INSTEAD, SILENCE
The world is a whirl of vibrations. I don't always hear the music of it.
WALKING WITH ENVY
I walked with a friend yesterday. Into the forest. ... Listening to the ravens, chattering in their many and strange tongues. Wondering, always: What do they tell me? What, slowed as I am, am I ready to hear?