Act without expectation. (Lao Tzu)
I'm of an age where this is visceral. It's not just something to read on a card. I feel it in my knees and in my heart.
The most difficult teachers have been my best teachers. The ones I resist, they break me open so that I may learn. And because I am my most difficult and challenging teacher I need an amount (always more than I imagine) of solitude. To sit. With my willfulness. My obstinance. My denial. All of it!
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