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Apprenticeship to Love, Chapter 189, June 29, 2024 * Today’s questions: What does this moment feel like? Is the feeling known, or is there confusion? Can you hold this, gently, and allow it to move in your body? * Today's suggested practice: to sit with your own resistance to
Apprenticeship to Love, Chapter 183, June 23, 2024 * Today’s questions: What can you give, to remember the holiness of your brokenheartedness, and how it prepares you for love? * Today's suggested practice: to sit with your own resistance to learning what you know will change your life... (see
Apprenticeship to Love, Chapter 178, June 18, 2024 * Today’s questions: How are you allowing yourself to feel the bitterness of the strange that sweetens the familiar in this moment of living? * Today's suggested practice: to sit with your own resistance to learning what you know will change
Apprenticeship to Love, Chapter 168, June 8, 2024 * Today’s questions: What wisdom is calling you? And how are you resisting? * Today's suggested practice: to sit with your own resistance to learning what you know will change your life... (see my "Short Practice,” below) * My practice today:
Apprenticeship to Love, Chapter 161, May 31, 2024 * Today’s questions: What lies, hidden, in the deep shadows of your understandings? What does your seeing unsee? * Today's suggested practice: to breathe and feel the tension, pressure, friction, and stress, and then allowing it to become more beautiful than
Apprenticeship to Love, Chapter 27, May 27, 2024 * Today’s questions: Who sees you? And, what stranger do you see? * Today's suggested practice: to breathe and feel the tension, pressure, friction, and stress, and then allowing it to become more beautiful than you can imagine... (see my "
CHAPTER 156: Apprenticeship to Love, May 26, 2024 * Today’s questions: How do you welcome the stranger into your life? Are you prepared for what they bring? * Today's suggested practice: to breathe and feel the tension, pressure, friction, and stress, and then allowing it to become more beautiful
Apprenticeship to Love, May 20, 2024 * Today’s questions: Where do I feel most attacked, most defensive? What would happen if I accepted that THIS is where my deepest learning, in this moment, waits for me? * Today's suggested practice: to breathe and feel the tension, pressure, friction, and
Apprenticeship to Love, May 15, 2024 * Today’s questions: What do you most desire? Are you leaning into it? Are you leaning back from it, and allowing it to be more beautiful than you can imagine? What fear keeps you from leaning back? * Today's suggested practice: to breathe
Apprenticeship to Love, May 10, 2024 * Today’s questions: What commitment am I afraid to make? What responsibility —for another's being loved, for my own being loved— am I hesitating to allow? * Today's suggested practice: to breathe and feel the tension, pressure, friction, and stress, and
Apprenticeship to Love, May 3, 2024 * Today’s questions: And again, What happens when you slow down, almost to the point of being still? What changes? What doesn't change? Now, slow yourself a little more. Notice what begins to open, to move, within and without. Are you willing
Apprenticeship to Love, April 25, 2024 * Today’s questions: And again, What happens when you slow down, almost to the point of being still? What changes? What doesn't change? Now, slow yourself a little more. Notice what begins to open, to move, within and without. Are you willing