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Apprenticeship to Love, Chapter 245, August 10, 2024 * Today’s questions: Is your life orderly, structured, purposeful? Or is it sometimes crumbling, a shambles, looking for direction? And either way, What do you DO with this awareness? * Today's suggested practice: to sit with your own resistance to learning
Apprenticeship to Love, Chapter 235, August 5, 2024 * Today’s questions: What feels too strange today? Too different to be allowed to rest in your heart? What happens when —if only for a moment— you see this strangess as a gift, this stranger as a guest, to be fêted, received?
Apprenticeship to Love, Chapter 217, July 27, 2024 * Today’s questions: What are you in a hurry for? What presses you as if it cannot wait? And, What happens when you learn to wait for it come to you? * Today's suggested practice: to sit with your own resistance
Apprenticeship to Love, Chapter 207, July 17, 2024 * Today’s questions: How long can I hold confusion before I collapse —or, before it blossoms as love? How long? And, am I able to let myself rest, to return to feeling it all, allowing it all to blossom into love, beauty,
Apprenticeship to Love, Chapter 204, July 14, 2024 * Today’s questions: How long can you hold confusion before you collapse —or, before it blossoms as love? How long? * Today's suggested practice: to sit with your own resistance to learning what you already know & receive as love... (see
Apprenticeship to Love, Chapter 198, July 8, 2024 * Today’s questions: How strangely does love make itself felt in your life? What happens when you hold this strangeness gently, and welcome it in? * Today's suggested practice: to sit with your own resistance to learning what you already know
Apprenticeship to Love, Chapter 189, June 29, 2024 * Today’s questions: What does this moment feel like? Is the feeling known, or is there confusion? Can you hold this, gently, and allow it to move in your body? * Today's suggested practice: to sit with your own resistance to
Apprenticeship to Love, Chapter 183, June 23, 2024 * Today’s questions: What can you give, to remember the holiness of your brokenheartedness, and how it prepares you for love? * Today's suggested practice: to sit with your own resistance to learning what you know will change your life... (see
Apprenticeship to Love, Chapter 178, June 18, 2024 * Today’s questions: How are you allowing yourself to feel the bitterness of the strange that sweetens the familiar in this moment of living? * Today's suggested practice: to sit with your own resistance to learning what you know will change
Apprenticeship to Love, Chapter 168, June 8, 2024 * Today’s questions: What wisdom is calling you? And how are you resisting? * Today's suggested practice: to sit with your own resistance to learning what you know will change your life... (see my "Short Practice,” below) * My practice today:
Apprenticeship to Love, Chapter 161, May 31, 2024 * Today’s questions: What lies, hidden, in the deep shadows of your understandings? What does your seeing unsee? * Today's suggested practice: to breathe and feel the tension, pressure, friction, and stress, and then allowing it to become more beautiful than
Apprenticeship to Love, Chapter 27, May 27, 2024 * Today’s questions: Who sees you? And, what stranger do you see? * Today's suggested practice: to breathe and feel the tension, pressure, friction, and stress, and then allowing it to become more beautiful than you can imagine... (see my "