TODAY I AM ENOUGH
Her changes are not only frightening, they are beautiful.
Rev. Hans Peter Meyer
A teacher & coach of authentic relationships I'm working with men and couples to make their lives happier. I'm also a certified Life-Cycle Celebrant™ (weddings, funerals, the rituals of this life).
PARADOX REVEALS MY PATH
...there is no certainty, except my commitment to follow the path she shows me.
WRITINGS & RITES & PASSAGES
"She can smell your desperation," my wise friend told me. "She can smell it in your voice. As long as she smells your desperation you are not safe for her."
Everyday entitlements
Apprenticeship to Love: Meditations on this crooked path to sacred marriage, March 1, 2026 TODAY'S MEDITATION We are, today, only a few days from the international day dedicated to the of honouring women. What does this mean, today, when the world is seems so much more hostile to
Short: Change
We rise by lifting others. (Robert Ingersoll)
Short: Kindness
Kindness begins with the understanding that we all struggle. (Charles Glassman)
Without Expectations (short)
Act without expectation. (Lao Tzu)
A WINTER OF MOURNING
I'm of an age where this is visceral. It's not just something to read on a card. I feel it in my knees and in my heart.
HOW DO I RECEIVE THESE GIFTS?
The most difficult teachers have been my best teachers. The ones I resist, they break me open so that I may learn. And because I am my most difficult and challenging teacher I need an amount (always more than I imagine) of solitude. To sit. With my willfulness. My obstinance. My denial. All of it!
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FOR MEN, THIS WINTER
MORE ON WALKING, INTIMACY, WEDDINGS, MARRIAGE, DEATH.
AND THEN, TO PROCEED ON FOOT
Today I know this: I have been called, chosen, and have often turned away from the choosing and the calling. That cost me.
YOU SEE ME
You help me to understand myself by seeing me, hearing me, feeling into the man I am. This is a subtle form of play. I am beginning to understand it as the highest form of "courtship."